Yes, something like a proxy driver...that's not what i meant with "I don't think that this is possible". What i actually meant was, that you can't access the underlying, real video driver...or in other words: I don't think that you can bypass that proxy driver unless NetControl 2 has an option to do so.
What's the actual error that LWJGL gives you?
You have two other options: Try JOGL instead (
http://www.jpct.net/wiki/index.php/The_different_renderers#JOGL_support) to see if that works better. If it doesn't, another option is to use the software renderer instead. It has less features and is slower, but depending on your needs, it might be sufficient.